Thoughts! Action! Habits! Destiny!

Energy flows to where your attention goes! If you are thinking it – your subconscious stores those thoughts and is your autopilot! What you think every day determines your actions. Then those actions become habits and that becomes your destiny. Did you know a child doesn’t develop a conscious mind till 7 or 8? They are the sum of all that is fed to them by people around them. So many times your decisions are coming from past memories that may not be true or serve your best interests. Those memories can be changed and fed new positive thoughts. Learning to identify what they are is key. Is this easy – not really! It is liking bathing needs to do it daily.

What did your parents like to say to you? I am so lucky that my parents gave us positive messages about life. Now when there are 9 children – that’s a lot. 2 boys and 7 girls. My Father wanted his daughters to get a good education and be able to pay for our own weddings! My Mother wanted us to be independent and have more choices. The message was always you can do anything you put your mind to as long as you are willing to work. Messages about money were positive. We were paid allowances based on jobs we did. Wanted more money do more work. We were encouraged to get jobs and make money.

My Mother was very resourceful. We lived in Glen Margaret and had a barn at the edge of the Peggy’s Cove Rd in Nova Scotia. She had a gift shop – the Killick and sold handmade Nova Scotia crafts. Now what kind of a job can you get with 9 children? It was her quiet time and to meet new people. We were read the riot act to stay in the house and far away from the shop. If she made sales that day we got treats. As we got older we would help out in the shop. Great real life experiences. Fisherman knit sweaters were big at the time and I started to knit and sell them in the shop. So without knowing it I was an entrepreneur from an early age. My best summer I knit 50 sweaters and sold them at $30 each.

How thankful I am that I learned such amazing lessons early in life! And that the programing of my subconscious mind works for my best interests. Changes to mindset can be made – first identify and then reboot!!

Make it a great day!
Dalene

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